<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?> <rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" ><channel><title>Banner &#187; Self Help</title> <atom:link href="http://www.mercabanner.com/category/self-help/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.mercabanner.com</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 02:15:11 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1</generator> <item><title>3 Ways To Cure Panic Attacks With High Quality Sle</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/3-ways-to-cure-panic-attacks-with-high-quality-sle-3</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/3-ways-to-cure-panic-attacks-with-high-quality-sle-3#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 00:06:53 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/3-ways-to-cure-panic-attacks-with-high-quality-sle-3</guid> <description><![CDATA[One of the best ways to cure panic attacks is to improve the quality of your sleep, and here are 3 methods for doing just that. ***Method #1. No More Negative Thinking In The Bedroom*** More worry and anxiety happens when you&#8217;re lying awake in bed than at any other time of the day. That&#8217;s [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the best ways to cure panic attacks is to improve the quality of your sleep, and here are 3 methods for doing just that.</p><p>***Method #1. No More Negative Thinking In The Bedroom***</p><p>More worry and anxiety happens when you&#8217;re lying awake in bed than at any other time of the day. That&#8217;s pretty incredible when you consider it&#8217;s the place where we should be most relaxed!</p><p>I&#8217;d feel confident guessing that worrying in bed troubles you most when you&#8217;re trying to fall asleep when you first get into bed, in the middle of the night when you wake up, and first thing in the morning before you get up.</p><p>To stop these situations, you need to stop as much of your &#8220;worrying in bed&#8221; time as you can. The simplest one to cure is the one where you&#8217;re lying in bed in the morning after you&#8217;ve woken up. All you need to do is get up as soon as you wake up!</p><p>This may sound like a very simplistic idea}, but it really does work and will beginning to your day.</p><p>As for the times when you wake up during the night and start to worry/panic well, this one&#8217;s slightly trickier. But there are things you can do! First of all, if you&#8217;re awake longer than a few minutes and you feel your anxiety increasing, get up out of bed. Being in bed in the silence will just make any anxiety you feel seem even worse.</p><p>Have a warm shower or wash your face with warm water, potter around for 10 minutes doing something that doesn&#8217;t need much focus (a bit of tidying, listening to some soft music, skim-reading a magazine etc.), and then go back to bed. The key here is to recreate a &#8220;natural&#8221; going-to-bed routine.</p><p>By getting up when you&#8217;re awake, and going back to bed in this way after you&#8217;ve been doing something for a while, it&#8217;s much more like you&#8217;re going to bed for the first time. This is far more natural for your body, and you&#8217;re going to be able to get back to sleep much quicker than if you&#8217;d just remained in bed the entire time.</p><p>***Method #2. No More Ever-Changing Schedules***</p><p>If you&#8217;re suffering with a sleep problem for any reason, not just one that&#8217;s caused by anxiety and panic, then sticking to the same schedule every day is great advice.</p><p>And yes, by doing nothing more than going to bed and getting up at the same times, every single day, your internal clock will go back to normal and your sleeping can&#8217;t fail to improve. You&#8217;ll also correct any problems with things like irregular hormone release, which can be affected by poor sleep habits.</p><p>I bet you know that feeling that you&#8217;re completely burnt out, right? Well, that is sometimes a result of your adrenal glands being out of whack. One of the few ways to correct a problem like that is to get some good sleeping habits sorted out.</p><p>So try your best to get to sleep every night at the same time, and also get up in the mornings at the same time. Be careful not to undo your good work by sleeping in late on weekends or on days when you don&#8217;t need to be up early.</p><p>***Method #3. No More Stimulants Before Bedtime***</p><p>A lot of the problems that you currently have with your sleep could be to do with what you do directly before you go to bed. Fast-paced TV, loud music, heavy reading, and playing video games are all very bad ideas in the last hour or two before you try to sleep.</p><p>So the first thing to do is eliminate anything stimulating for at least an hour before you go to bed. You should also not do any exercise at all for at least a couple of hours before bed. And try to develop a new pre-bed routine a &#8220;slow-down&#8221; routine, as I like to call it.</p><p>So go out of your way to take it easy. act like you&#8217;re on a vacation without a worry in the world. You know what relaxes you, so do that! Have a favourite bed time drink, do some light reading, sit outside in the fresh air if it&#8217;s warm. Anything to relax.</p><p>It may sound a bit obvious to give this kind of advice, but how many of us really give ourselves time like this? Even those of us who do don&#8217;t do it enough.</p><p>If you&#8217;re a bath-taker, then whenever you can take one right before you get into bed. Make it warm, but never too hot. A warm bath has been proven in many studies to put the body in just the right state for great quality sleep. So make this slow winding-down hour a new part of your pre-bed routine. It can work unbelievably well when you&#8217;re not sleeping.</p><p><a href="http://poweroverpanic.com/">stop panic attacks</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/3-ways-to-cure-panic-attacks-with-high-quality-sle-3/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Would Marriage Counselling Save A Person</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/would-marriage-counselling-save-a-person</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/would-marriage-counselling-save-a-person#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 22:18:25 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/would-marriage-counselling-save-a-person</guid> <description><![CDATA[I must announce it, marriage counselling ended up saving my well being. Which can seem fairly melodramatic, but it is entirely accurate. Some years ago my spouse and I commenced developing difficulties, mostly due to the matter that I became an alcoholic although couldn&#8217;t disclose it or try to get guidance. My wife said to [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must announce it, marriage counselling ended up saving my well being. Which can seem fairly melodramatic, but it is entirely accurate. Some years ago my spouse and I commenced developing difficulties, mostly due to the matter that I became an alcoholic although couldn&#8217;t disclose it or try to get guidance. My wife said to me that if I didn&#8217;t head off to <a href="http://www.winexloveback.com/marriage-counselling/">marriage counselling</a> with her she would certainly divorce me. And that is when I came to the realization what was at risk, and went with her. Right after that I resolved to get guidance for my dependency, and I&#8217;m sure I in all probability would have died if my wife would not have been adamant on counselling.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/would-marriage-counselling-save-a-person/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Take a look at Some Popular Music Instruments</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/take-a-look-at-some-popular-music-instruments</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/take-a-look-at-some-popular-music-instruments#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 20:51:50 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/take-a-look-at-some-popular-music-instruments</guid> <description><![CDATA[The piano is, &#038; has been in essence given that it was first created, 1 of if not the most, in style instrument on the planet. Persons have been listening to the music of the most fantastic piano players like Bach, Mozart and Beethoven for hundreds of years, since these masterful musicians were essentially alive. [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The piano is, &#038; has been in essence given that it was first created, 1 of if not the most, in style instrument on the planet. Persons have been listening to the music of the most fantastic piano players like Bach, Mozart and Beethoven for hundreds of years, since these masterful musicians were essentially alive. The date that the piano was invented is the focus of much hearsay and there are numerous differing opinions.</p><p>A quantity of folks &#038;  credentials maintain that the instrument was invented in the late seventeenth century, while others praise the opinion that it was in fact created in the very early part of the eighteenth century. What each person agrees about although is that the discoverer was an Italian who usually worked improving harpsichords, &#038; that there are only a small amount of the very first pianos still around these days.</p><p><a href="http://rocketpianoreview.net">Rocket Piano review</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/take-a-look-at-some-popular-music-instruments/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Improvement Through Hypnosis</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/improvement-through-hypnosis</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/improvement-through-hypnosis#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 18:31:55 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/improvement-through-hypnosis</guid> <description><![CDATA[Hypnosis is a way of influencing the subconscious mind. It is usually used to help folks get over issues or phobias however can also be used to gain influence. One of the most well-liked strategies of hypnosis is conversational hypnosis which can be known as covert hypnosis. This can achieve the same things but the [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hypnosis is a way of influencing the subconscious mind. It is usually used to help folks get over issues or phobias however can also be used to gain influence.</p><p>One of the most well-liked strategies of hypnosis is conversational hypnosis which can be known as covert hypnosis. This can achieve the same things but the process is different.</p><p>The technique varies in that it&#8217;s more delicate and you do not want to go through any lengthy hypnosis scripts. As a substitute you may simply converse to the other person and use the power of language and pacing to get concepts through to them. For more check out <a href="http://learncoverthypnosis.org/">covert hypnosis</a>. The reason that covert or conversational hypnosis is so highly effective is because it isn&#8217;t apparent to the other particular person what you&#8217;re doing so they consider they came up with the ideas themselves.</p><p>There are some limits as you need to have the ability to focus the attentions of the particular person you&#8217;re hypnotizing. This does not need to cause problems but it will likely be far simpler if they are paying full consideration to you.</p><p>It ought to only be used for constructive things and you have to be aware that you simply can not make someone do something they do not want to. You are only utilizing persuasion and influence methods with this type of hypnosis.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/improvement-through-hypnosis/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Just How Will You Get That Ex Love Over Again</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/just-how-will-you-get-that-ex-love-over-again</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/just-how-will-you-get-that-ex-love-over-again#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 01:24:01 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/just-how-will-you-get-that-ex-love-over-again</guid> <description><![CDATA[There are actually ways to bring the enthusiasm back again to a frazzled partnership. For those who look back and find out that you just truly did not have to split, then you will have to go to win ex love back. Primarily, you have got to talk with her, have the chat up and [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are actually ways to bring the enthusiasm back again to a frazzled partnership. For those who look back and find out that you just truly did not have to split, then you will have to go to win <a href="http://www.winexloveback.com">ex love</a><br /> back. Primarily, you have got to talk with her, have the chat up and running back once again. Whenever she is going to talk to you it really is simpler to start the steps of wooing her back. Provide her small presents, you no doubt know what she prefers, so use that to your great benefit. Pay attention to her, let her know that you treasure her, as well as the things she wants to say. Before you know it you&#8217;ll be lovers for a second time. Try to remember some of this, and use it. Eventually you might have that ex love wrapped in your arms yet again.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/just-how-will-you-get-that-ex-love-over-again/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>How To Stop Panic Attacks And Obsessive Thoughts</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts-4</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts-4#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 05:07:54 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts-4</guid> <description><![CDATA[Have you ever asked what the root cause of all your panic and anxiety truly is? Well, in my opinion, it&#8217;s very likely to be the obsessive thoughts you experience. These obsessive thoughts are like snowballs that gather momentum and size and turn into the problems your anxiety causes you. If you think this isn&#8217;t [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever asked what the root cause of all your panic and anxiety truly is? Well, in my opinion, it&#8217;s very likely to be the obsessive thoughts you experience. These obsessive thoughts are like snowballs that gather momentum and size and turn into the problems your anxiety causes you.</p><p>If you think this isn&#8217;t how it works with you and that your obsessive thoughts AREN&#8217;T the cause of your anxiety, start paying attention to how and what you&#8217;re thinking before your anxiety increases.</p><p>Most people are staggered at the results when they study themselves in this way, and I think there&#8217;s a good chance you will be as well. And there&#8217;s a good reason why I can predict this kind of outcome: because for many years (almost 20, in fact) I suffered with exactly the same problems you&#8217;re living with right now.</p><p>The really terrible thing about having an anxiety disorder is that you can&#8217;t just shut off your horrible thoughts like a lot of non-anxious people can. So you need a different option. And that option is to find ways to bring an instant halt to a potentially harmful thought before it ever has a chance to become an obsession.</p><p>I&#8217;m about to give you a fast, three-step plan of attack which you can start using right now to stop the thoughts you have turning into the obsessive thoughts that cause all your problems. Okay, here we go:</p><p>Step #1: You need to train yourself to be able to spot a damaging thought as soon as it starts inside you. So don&#8217;t ignore harmful thoughts, even when they seem small and harmless. Realise that these little thoughts can turn into big ones, and treat them like something you MUST stop.</p><p>Step #2: People with no anxiety problems drop a harmful or negative thought after a few seconds, and that&#8217;s why it doesn&#8217;t cause them anxiety. You need to become like them. And since the only way to stop one thought is by having ANOTHER thought, you need to think something else as soon as you detect any of these harmful thoughts. What should you think of? Anything &#8211; whatever it takes to stop that original and harmless thought.</p><p>Third Step: Your damaging thoughts usually begin when your mind is left to wander, or to daydream. This is how thinking these bad thoughts becomes a habit. By thinking these thoughts too often they start to happen on their own, and they creep up on you and do their damage. To end this problem, there&#8217;s only one answer: creating a new default frame of mind, one that&#8217;s calm, positive, and pleasant. You do this by thinking good, positive thoughts as often as you can, so that this becomes the type of thinking your brain does automatically when you aren&#8217;t paying attention.</p><p>I firmly believe that if you can use and stick to these 3 steps that your anxiety and panic and obsessive thoughts will be in better shape than they&#8217;ve been for many years</p><p><a href="http://poweroverpanic.com/">tips for panic attacks</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts-4/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Cure Your Panic Attacks By Stopping Your Obsessive</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/cure-your-panic-attacks-by-stopping-your-obsessive-3</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/cure-your-panic-attacks-by-stopping-your-obsessive-3#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 03:40:42 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/cure-your-panic-attacks-by-stopping-your-obsessive-3</guid> <description><![CDATA[Virtually all of your panic is caused by the obsessive thoughts you experience. Whenever you&#8217;ve had anxiety in the past, it started with an obsessive thought, guaranteed. And then it gained momentum and went on to become the anxiety-related problem you experienced or the panic attack you had. Just in case you&#8217;re thinking that you&#8217;re [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Virtually all of your panic is caused by the obsessive thoughts you experience. Whenever you&#8217;ve had anxiety in the past, it started with an obsessive thought, guaranteed. And then it gained momentum and went on to become the anxiety-related problem you experienced or the panic attack you had.</p><p>Just in case you&#8217;re thinking that you&#8217;re the exception to this theory, let me encourage you to give this theory a chance by beginning to pay close attention to exactly what&#8217;s on your mind in the moments before your anxiety gets out of control.</p><p>Most people are staggered at the results when they study themselves in this way, and I think there&#8217;s a good chance you will be as well. And there&#8217;s a good reason why I can predict this kind of outcome: because for many years (almost 20, in fact) I lived with exactly the same problems you&#8217;re living with right now.</p><p>The really bad thing about having an anxiety disorder is that you can&#8217;t just shut off your horrible thoughts like a lot of non-anxious people can. So you need a different option. And that option is to find ways to bring an instant halt to a potentially harmful thought before it ever has a chance to become an obsession.</p><p>I have a 3 step plan you can start using right now to stop all your obsessive thoughts:</p><p>First Step: This step is all about you retraining your mind so that it can quickly spot harmful thoughts the moment they start. This also includes small thoughts that might seem harmless, but these have the potential to grow and get out of control, so consider these small ones just as important as the big ones.</p><p>Second Step: You need to become exactly like people with no anxiety problems. For them, it&#8217;s simple to stop a bad thought anytime they want to. For you, it takes a little more work. The only way to stop one thought is by having another thought, so to stop the damaging thoughts you simply need to have a new thought that takes its place. You might be wondering what you should be thinking. The answer is simple: think of whatever it takes to stop that original and damaging thought.</p><p>Step #3: Most harmful thoughts start when you&#8217;re daydreaming or when your mind is wandering. And these harmful thoughts are a HABIT. That&#8217;s why they happen so easily and sneak up on you, because you&#8217;ve trained your mind to slip into a negative autopilot. The only way to undo this is to retrain your mind, and you do that by thinking about nice things as often as you can, even if you have to use fantasies or old memories to do it. Think of it like creating a new default setting for your mind.</p><p>Start putting these 3 steps into action as soon as possible and your obsessive thoughts and panic-related problems will soon be under control.</p><p><a href="http://poweroverpanic.com/">tips for panic attacks</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/cure-your-panic-attacks-by-stopping-your-obsessive-3/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The Various Types Of Hypnosis</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/the-various-types-of-hypnosis-2</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/the-various-types-of-hypnosis-2#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 18:35:13 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/the-various-types-of-hypnosis-2</guid> <description><![CDATA[Learning hypnosis can be one of the most enlightening and interesting things you are able to do if you&#8217;re interested by the human mind and behavior. You will learn lots when you start to take on board the ideas associated with hypnosis and hypnotic induction. If you want to learn black ops hypnosis then click [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Learning hypnosis can be one of the most enlightening and interesting things you are able to do if you&#8217;re interested by the human mind and behavior.</p><p>You will learn lots when you start to take on board the ideas associated with hypnosis and hypnotic induction.</p><p>If you want to learn <a href="http://learncoverthypnosis.org/underground-hypnosis/black-ops-hypnosis/">black ops hypnosis</a> then click the link and see the top online hypnosis program.</p><p>You would possibly prefer to make use of conversational hypnosis instead of the traditional kinds as it&#8217;s usually simpler to do. It is also more powerful because the person you might be hypnotizing is much less aware of what is happening. To do this you want to use different strategies than you&#8217;ll do in a standard hypnosis session although they are often adapted fairly easily.</p><p>Instead of using the traditional trance technique you gain rapport with the other individual and they start to take on your opinions and ideas.</p><p>The reason that covert or conversational hypnosis is so powerful is because it&#8217;s not obvious to the other individual what you&#8217;re doing so they consider they came up with the ideas themselves.</p><p>It can actually be used anywhere however it helps if you can get right into a peaceful area with few distractions so you may focus attention.</p><p>The main benefit of conversational hypnosis is that you will be able to create a bond with folks you have only just met and have a charisma that draws them to you. It is a very powerful factor and one thing that makes it worth your time to practice.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/the-various-types-of-hypnosis-2/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The Various Types Of Hypnosis</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/the-various-types-of-hypnosis</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/the-various-types-of-hypnosis#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 18:34:44 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/the-various-types-of-hypnosis</guid> <description><![CDATA[Learning hypnosis can be one of the most enlightening and interesting things you are able to do if you&#8217;re interested by the human mind and behavior. You will learn lots when you start to take on board the ideas associated with hypnosis and hypnotic induction. If you want to learn black ops hypnosis then click [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Learning hypnosis can be one of the most enlightening and interesting things you are able to do if you&#8217;re interested by the human mind and behavior.</p><p>You will learn lots when you start to take on board the ideas associated with hypnosis and hypnotic induction.</p><p>If you want to learn <a href="http://learncoverthypnosis.org/underground-hypnosis/black-ops-hypnosis/">black ops hypnosis</a> then click the link and see the top online hypnosis program.</p><p>You would possibly prefer to make use of conversational hypnosis instead of the traditional kinds as it&#8217;s usually simpler to do. It is also more powerful because the person you might be hypnotizing is much less aware of what is happening. To do this you want to use different strategies than you&#8217;ll do in a standard hypnosis session although they are often adapted fairly easily.</p><p>Instead of using the traditional trance technique you gain rapport with the other individual and they start to take on your opinions and ideas.</p><p>The reason that covert or conversational hypnosis is so powerful is because it&#8217;s not obvious to the other individual what you&#8217;re doing so they consider they came up with the ideas themselves.</p><p>It can actually be used anywhere however it helps if you can get right into a peaceful area with few distractions so you may focus attention.</p><p>The main benefit of conversational hypnosis is that you will be able to create a bond with folks you have only just met and have a charisma that draws them to you. It is a very powerful factor and one thing that makes it worth your time to practice.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/the-various-types-of-hypnosis/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>A 3 Step Plan To Stop Obsessive Thoughts And Panic</title><link>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/a-3-step-plan-to-stop-obsessive-thoughts-and-panic-2</link> <comments>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/a-3-step-plan-to-stop-obsessive-thoughts-and-panic-2#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sun, 08 Aug 2010 22:56:51 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>admin</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/a-3-step-plan-to-stop-obsessive-thoughts-and-panic-2</guid> <description><![CDATA[Have you ever asked what the root cause of all your panic and anxiety truly is? Well, in my opinion, it&#8217;s very likely to be the obsessive thoughts you have. These obsessive thoughts are like snowballs that gather momentum and size and turn into the problems your anxiety causes you. If you think this isn&#8217;t [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever asked what the root cause of all your panic and anxiety truly is? Well, in my opinion, it&#8217;s very likely to be the obsessive thoughts you have. These obsessive thoughts are like snowballs that gather momentum and size and turn into the problems your anxiety causes you.</p><p>If you think this isn&#8217;t how it works with you and that your obsessive thoughts AREN&#8217;T the cause of your anxiety, start paying attention to how and what you&#8217;re thinking before your anxiety increases.</p><p>I think you&#8217;ll be amazed to learn that obsessive thoughts are at the heart of your panic and anxiety. The reason I&#8217;m so sure about this is because I&#8217;ve interacted with literally hundreds of people who are in exactly your position, plus I also experienced these same problems for myself for almost two decades.</p><p>Unfortunately, when you have an anxiety disorder, it&#8217;s impossible to drop a thought automatically like most other people can. So the solution to this problem is finding ways to consciously drop a thought before it becomes harmful &#8211; before it becomes OBSESSIVE.</p><p>I&#8217;m about to give you a fast, three-step plan of attack which you can start using right now to stop the thoughts you have turning into the obsessive thoughts that cause all your problems. Okay, here we go:</p><p>First Step: This step is all about you retraining your brain so that it can easily spot harmful thoughts the moment they start. This also includes small thoughts that might seem harmless, but these have the potential to grow and get out of control, so consider these small ones just as important as the bigger ones.</p><p>Step two is to learn a technique that will allow you to stop these unwanted thoughts, and the one I suggest is to simply use other thoughts to overpower the original one. This makes sense, because the only thing that can ever stop one thought is another thought. The key here is to make this second thought a positive one. Play around with thoughts &#8211; use anything that works and overpowers that original and unwanted thought.</p><p>Okay, step three is to make this new positive way of thinking a habit that happens automatically, just as your harmful thoughts are happening automatically for you right now. The only way to make this happen is to think positive thoughts as often as possible. In time, your brain will automatically think these positive thoughts when your mind wanders, where once it would have gone immediately to the damaging thoughts you experience right now.</p><p>I honestly believe that if you can use and stick to these 3 steps that your anxiety and panic and obsessive thoughts will be in better shape than they&#8217;ve been for many years.</p><p><a href="http://poweroverpanic.com/">tips for panic attacks</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.mercabanner.com/self-help/a-3-step-plan-to-stop-obsessive-thoughts-and-panic-2/feed</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> </channel> </rss>
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